I recorded this conversation in 2002 when Maggie, like Alexander, had had a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad week.
Me, trying to comfort Maggie: Remember sweetie, the Bible says, “The Lord is near to the broken-hearted and saves those crushed in spirit.”
Maggie: Mom, I’ve just had a bad week, I haven’t been trampled by a horse!
Me: Ok, got it. Ratchet back the hyper-spiritualizing.
Recently I’ve circled back to Psalm 34 where that verse is found. It’s a “praise-the-Lord-even-if-I’m-dying” Psalm, because God is present. It’s a good reminder Psalm. God has used it in my life in some of the lowest times (can you tell from all the scribbling and times I’ve dated it?)
But on other days I love it that we also have the “crap-life-sucks-and-never-will-get-better-so-let’s-kick-ass” Psalms.
Psalm 35, for example Continue reading
I vividly remember the second time I ever saw my husband, John.
He was up in front of the congregation at the church I was attending. He was the youth pastor, fresh out of seminary and it was his first time preaching. He was leading the congregation in reading the morning Scripture passage responsively – him one verse, us the next. The problem was he was reading from one Psalm and the congregation was reading from another – the correct one – the one printed in the bulletin.
After a few awkward, “off” responses that left people confused, he stopped and said, “Have you ever made a really big mistake in front of a lot of people?”
I may have fallen in love with him at that moment. A leader who can own his mistakes and move on is rare.
But some mistakes are much bigger than others. Sometimes owning our mistakes is complicated and the consequential damage can seem irreparable. Continue reading