I’ve titled this series “When Mistakes Have Been Made”, but I’m thinking that may minimize what we’re talking about and what many of us experience. Maybe the title should be something more like “When you’ve messed up messier than Lindsay Lohan.” or “When your sin seems like a toxic waste dump”.
The problem is most people are doing the best they can. They’re trying really hard to do the right thing.
Sometimes as a leader you make an error in judgement that hurts many like friendly fire. Other times you feel like you’re walking through a land mine of personal sin. But you long to do better.
When I make mistakes I think I want to hide, but I realize I really want something else.
This is a note I framed that Katy wrote when she was about 4 or 5 years old.
“Do not come in! P.S. I will be under the covers.”
In other words, I’m hiding, but I really want to be found. I want you to find me and love me no matter what I’ve done or how bad I’ve messed up.
Isn’t there a part of all of us that feels that way? A desire to be known. Found. Accepted no matter how big the mistake. No matter how “not good enough” we feel.
I’ve been thinking lately that I should hang another picture underneath this note.
A picture of the Samaritan woman at the well. The woman trying to hide in plain sight, going to the well in the middle of the day – like an obese person shopping at Walmart at midnight – so she wouldn’t be shamed by critics.
It struck me recently when I was teaching on this passage… What is it that she runs back and tells everyone after her encounter with Jesus? What impacted her the most? “Come see a man who knew all about the things I did, who knows me inside and out.” (John 4:29 MSG). He saw her and He still accepted her. She mattered to Jesus.
Just a reminder. In case you’re feeling like you’re under the covers and no one knows, you’re wrong. God knows. He sees. He loves you. No matter how “not good enough” you are.